Thank you for the prompt reply!
I figure most of those questions were rhetorical, but nevertheless, I'll answer some of them so you know more what sort of view I'm coming from and maybe you can help me more
I plan to dive mostly local US west coast pacific waters, from northern California to Seattle. Of course, I'd occasionally want to take a trip to see the beautiful blue of warmer places, but for my home turf I'd be diving mostly in the 45-50F degree range, I expect. I am also a total fish nut. I've kept home aquaria since I was 10 and unfortunately have another expensive addiction in those. Just to spice it up a bit, I also love photography as a hobby, so I'll eventually combine all those interests into a mix when I'm able. Why does everything have to cost so much money???? Heheh...
Sadly, I haven't really anyone to dive with and I won't be living in my current area for too much longer, so I can't say who I dive with or who I will dive with. I feel pathetically alone in that regard. As for asking the people I do know, namely my dive shop, they would probably try to sell me whatever is the most expensive, regardless if it is what I really need or would use. I'm not happy with the recommendations they've given thus far, but what can you do. Reno isn't exactly a diving paradise.
I was expecting to spend $1500-$2500, so I guess my estimate wasn't too far off the mark. The thing is, I
HATE!!! my dive shop's rental stuff. I utterly loathe it. I never want to use it again, let alone buy any of it. That's somewhat sad, as it seems from most of the posts I've read that people recommend buying the rental stuff, or at least using it, till I know what I want. I suppose I will, but I don't relish the thought. Anyway, I have used both back inflate and jacket BCs, though just between my pool dives and certification dives, and preferred the jacket fairly strongly to the back inflate, so I think want to go with that. Based on that info, is it enough to make at least a BC purchase? I really would like to have my own so it fits well and I can get used to it and learn where everything is and just settle into it. It seemed like every BC I used from the dive shop was different and I was always having to learn new whosits and whatsits and then I'd forget which BC I was using and muddle it all up.
I really like the suggestion about buying it piece by piece. I never really thought of doing that, I guess because I'm so anxious to just have my own stuff. But that does make sense, and it sounds fun and rather satisfying. I think I'll do that
I was just thinking, I'm also seriously toying with the idea of taking the dry suit class over the summer. That probably changes stuff. This is just all so complicated!
Thanks again!