Hi there!
I am sorry to hear your first diving experience wasn't the best, but hopefully some folks here will offer some good advice...
The first advice I can give you is that if you have a cold, especially with blocked sinuses or ears, DON'T DIVE. It will almost certainly be uncomfortable, and can cause perforated eardrums and other problems.
I think most people find breathing underwater a little unnatural and uncomfortable at first. With time you will become more relaxed, which will reduce your breathing rate and therefore make it feel less laboured. Of course, if your breathing is laboured to start with, the stress will make you breathe harder making it even more laboured. Being generally blocked up and under the weather with a cold definitly won't help!
Once your cold is gone, you just need to try to keep yourself underwater, and relax making yourself breathe slowly, deeply and steadily. Don't try doing anything else underwater until you can just be comfortable breathing - trying to do too many things at once adds to stree. Just build up your comfort underwater, and get used to breathing from the reg. I think it's normal for a nervous newbie to come up for air on the first dive, but it's a habit you need to get out of
As for your friend, everyone is different, so don't try to compare yourself too closely with others! Just my 2 cents worth of advice. Hope that helps |